When scoring this, you need to think about what you want your life to really be, not what you've settled on. For example, in your marriage, if you think its just as good as it gets and you've given up, you might score it as an 8. Instead, go back to the day you were married and score it against what you dreamed it would be.
As you note your satisfaction levels in your personal and professional life, be honest with yourself, brutally honest. This is your private copy, so don’t hold anything back. There is no reason to hide.